Learning To Play The Piano As An Old Lady

I guess I was 68 the day I dusted off the piano I bought when my children were young. I had the random thought I could learn to play. I had dragged that piano around for thirty years and into and out of five houses–long after the kids had moved away. Sitting there, I concluded that I was probably at least half as bright as they were, and if they could learn to play, so could I.

Luckily, because I am an ‘old lady,’ I had no illusions about getting good or playing in front of anyone. So, I happily launched myself into the business of learning. I dug out the first book the kids used and got new sticky stars to mark my progress. I played a bit each day, and I remember when I could play something with both hands that sounded like real music. I got really “into” it then, as the young people say. By the time I was seventy, I had learned about ten easy pieces. At the same time, I began to spend long months with my daughter. Like every good parent, my daughter got her eight-year-old piano lessons from a lovely young man who looked about twelve years old to me, though I’m sure he was older since he has a college degree.

One day, after my granddaughter’s lesson, I asked her teacher to play a piece I
struggled with. One thing led to another, and I now take lessons every week. He has ‘forced’ me to learn to play the correct rhythm and pay attention to dynamics. In exchange, I ‘force’ him to play extraordinary Bach concertos and Beethoven sonatas for half our time together.

In conclusion, this has all worked out well. My granddaughter is determined to stay ahead of me in her lessons, so she practices daily (especially when I want to play.) My daughter is proud of me and enjoys answering my questions and teaching me things. She also has begun playing again. Come to find out, she thought she was too old to get back to playing. I think I am a living example of not giving in to an ordinary way of getting older.

It’s easy to get discouraged as we age. Things ache, teeth fall out, and it’s sad to look like warmed-over death when we look in the mirror. Learning to play the piano took me out of my disgruntlement. I now have something to talk about and share with my friends and family. I look forward to picking the next song I will learn.

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Written By Piano Student, Melinda Y.